1 making love was never about you and me in a bed; we made love whenever we held hands. 2 a three word statement does not justify the importance that you have in my life. instead of saying i love you, i want you to know that no statement in english, or any other language, could possibly capture the very essence of how much i truly treasure your existence. 3 "if we listened to our intellect, we'd never have a love affair. we'd never have a friendship. we'd never go into business, because we'd be cynical. well, that's nonsense. you've got to jump off cliffs all the time and build your wings on the way down." -Ray Bradbury- 4 but it's hard for me to stay mad when there's so much beauty in the world. sometimes i feel like i'm seeing it all at once, and it's too much. my heart fills up like a balloon that's about to burst. 5 wake up. get out of bed and stop hiding under the duvet, no matter how warm it is. you will get nothing accomplished. put some clothes on. wear red tights with the mustard yellow shoes. arrange the 3 day old curls in your hair. do something nice for yourself today. be pretty for absolutely no reason other than to prove to yourself that you're not worthless and sloven. buy yourself your favorite burrito, and make sure you get extra guacamole. drive past Emily Dickinson's house and imagine the lack of life she had. spend the extra money on your favorite art magazine and plan a trip to Sweden in your head. sing your favorite songs in your car. make a pit stop to the resovoir. collect the last leaves from autumn. watch the sun sink into the horizon. don't stare at your phone and wait for it to vibrate. don't mope. don't think about the only men in your life that have belittled you this week. don't sit. don't wait. don't look at the time that you've always set to three hours behind. don't delay your life even though someone has attempted to delay yours. 6 you get a little moody sometimes, but i think that's because you like to read. people that like to read are always a little bit fucked up. ++The Prince of Tides 7 oh, even when the sky is crashing down on you, you locked your knees and stood up straight. you are the strength in my veins. 8 "eventually you will come to realize that love heals everything and love is all there is." -Gary Zukav- 9 "like hot air balloons, all of us are engineered to soar to great heights. unfotunately, many of us 'sandbag' ourselves. we do things, we think things, and we believe things that hold us down. we get insecure, fearful, and jealous. we judge people, think negatively, and make excuses for our unhappiness. we become our biggest obstacle. imagine what it would be like if we got out of our own way." -Scott Greenberg- 10 i love you, and i hope that when you're laying in bed after a terrible night, watching terrible tv, that you don't feel alone. that you never really feel alone. |